Have you ever wondered which hurts the most?
Saying something and wishing you hadn't?
or Saying nothing and wishing you had?
I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say.
Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them.
If you do, they might break your heart...
if you don't, you might break theirs.

Have u ever decided not 2 become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person?
Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't.
You can't tell your heart what to do.
It does it on its own........
when you least suspect it, or even when you don't want it to.

Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but that other person was too afraid to let you?
Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much...
for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all.

Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?
We tell lies when we are afraid...
afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us.
But every time we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger.
Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump.
Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have done, or could have had.
* What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye?
*What would you do if every time you wanted someone they would never be there?

邓家两宝~

自从上次在弟弟部落格里看见他写下中秋节的感想，看见了这张照片，我真的哭笑不得~
对，这就是我家两老。。。啊，不，是两宝~
活了整半世纪，做了20多年夫妻，他们还是十年如一日，对我们的关爱日益增加，常把我们当三岁小孩子看待，但是关爱只会用行动做出来，口说不出，可能比较保守吧？我们家受不了大家对彼此说：我爱你！呵呵~所以，什么父亲节母亲节，我们自娘胎生出来就没有说过这三个字。。。也许这就是我们家沟通的方式吧！
这是今年中秋节时在公公家拍的。。。
别看他们都整把年纪了，有时童心未泯，常常做些令我们哭笑不得的事情~
这张照片就是他们提议要摆这个POSE的，你侬我侬~呵呵！
老爸深情款款，妈咪含羞答答，哇，这个画面，我真的是。。。无言=.='''
但是，我很庆幸我有这么一对活宝~
我们家境并不好，那是上一代就是事实的事~
老爸出身可怜，爸妈早死，身为长子，必须牺牲自己来成全全家人的生计。。。
听叔叔常说：老爸以前念书是个神童，尤其是数学。。。
可惜，为了家计，他必须放弃升学~
要不然，他现在不做装修，可能是大医生，大律师。。。
妈咪也一样，身为长女 ，同样也牺牲小我成全大我；
有时我会想：如果他们家境都不是这样，他们肯定是人中龙，人中凤~
可是，那时他们会相遇吗？不相遇，还会有我和弟弟吗？
家境贫困，不是他们所要的，也不是我们所要的。。。
然而，投胎没得让我们选，出生在家境不好的家庭，只好认命，只有改变~
从小，我都抱着一个心愿：改善家境，让爸妈脱离每天为钱愁的日子!
我不会为了钱而不择手段，但是我明白钱的重要性~
爸妈拼搏了大半世，我真的很想及时报答他们，所以从小我忘了自己的理想，忘了自己喜欢什么，一心只想实现那唯一的心愿~
但是，穷也穷得有志，穷也穷得开心。。。
夫妻俩争吵一定会有，但是为了钱而吵，我想真的是可悲~没钱百事哀。。。

所以我要努力禁止这些可悲的争吵！
如果再一次转世投胎，我还是会当他们的女儿。。。
因为，他们就是深爱着我们，无私付出的爸妈！
亲口说不出，但是在这里，我可以大声说一句：爸妈，我爱你！！:)